What do you want people to think about when they hear your name? Do you want to be thought of as a genius, a creative artist, a skilled athlete, or an expert in a certain field?
You can definitely achieve that. Here's how:
Associate yourself with the person you would like to be connected with.
If you want to be thought of as an energetic person, exude energy in your actions. Let people see for themselves how you are "full of vitality". Ok, that's obvious; but people often forget to "act accordingly."
More importantly, the words you speak will have a big influence in the way people will perceive you.
Talk about wealth all the time and people will associate you with wealth. Talk about goalsetting often and people will perceive you as a goalsetting authority.
So what you need to do is know everything you can about what you want people to associate you with, then talk about it often. Don't just talk about it, flaunt it! BE IT! Express it through your actions and behavior.
On the other hand, if you often talk about your poor situation or how you hate your life, people will see you as a whiner who puts yourself down. They would avoid you to save themselves from catching your "disease," unless they feel the same way as you do.
As you know, "Birds of the same feather flock together." People want to be with people who are similar (in thought or behavior) to themselves.
But that doesn't mean that if you have been used to be in the company of negative people, you are stuck in the rut forever. You can still change anything.
Remember, you are the master of your destiny and life. You can get whatever you want.
One of the kindest persons I've ever met has shared with me some of her visualization secrets to get what you want in life. I want to share them with you too:
1. If you visualize, you have to be in the picture. Example, you visualize a car, its type, model, color, etc. BUT What you should be doing is to visualize yourself riding or driving the car of your dreams.
She said before, she used to visualize a silver suv; what happens is that she sees so many silver suvs passing by, without her in it!
2. It helps if you do visualization at a specific time and do it regularly. DON'T do it just once in a while, then easily give up.
3. Don't be shy in making a request from the universe. Don't think you can't ask for more if you have so many blessings already.
We are encouraged to dream big, and everything that we need is already within us.
4. You can also inject fun in doing visualizations. She says, "My seatmate sees herself jumping up and down while doing the task she is thinking of. Injecting an element of fun encourages you to do it repetitively."
5. Think pictures. She says, "I have been affirming that 'I am a friendly person' but I cannot picture it out in my mind. So I have to create an image that relates to that like I am smiling and shaking hands with a person I just met."
"Like if you say 'I am rich' you have to 'materialize' it. What does being rich mean to you? Is it seeing in the computer so many people ordering your products? Encashing checks? It should be an activity."
6. You have to really desire, believe, and accept. You desire the thing or activity with passion, you believe that it will be yours (that this or something better will be given), and accept it. Your belief is an extremely important prerequisite to a successful visualization session.
f you want to attract abundance, prosperity, luck, blessings, or the so called good things in life, then you've to follow 3 simple yet overlooked rules.
1) Show Gratitude.
My editor and friend named Jones (I call her JK because she aims to be the next JK Rowling), told me that she's itching to buy the Hypnotic Library Package, but she doesn't have a credit card. I told her she could use mine.
I bought her the package and told her we can share in its cost (my share is slightly bigger), and that I'll just offset her share from her salary.
What happened next is something unbelievable.
She cried tears of joy because she said she has never met anyone "as kind as me."
"Huh??!?" I thought to myself, "It's no big deal."
At that time, she has just started editing for me, and said she can't believe I trusted her enough to buy a high ticket item for her, and that I even proposed to offset her share from her future salary.
I couldn't believe her either, because I have never met anyone who has shown such appreciation in exchange for a small favor I just did.
Appreciation. Gratitude. Giving thanks. You can attract good things in your life by temporarily cutting off any negative thoughts or problems from your mind, and start counting your blessings. Thank God/the Universe/people around you for all the wonderful things you've received.
By doing this, you are acknowledging that you are indeed blessed and flowing with abundance. And by showing gratitude and giving thanks, you are befriending the Universe to give you more.
